WAS I THAT EASILY FOOLED?

I've dealt with the following question a lot while counseling many women over the years concerning internet dating: I'm dealing with the Sister's today in a unique manner, God gave me a poem about it, Be blessed! Every woman that has gone through a bad social network dating relationship may ask themselves this question: WAS I THAT EASILY FOOLED? Looking at your picture, You seemed like such a great guy but the more I got to know you the more I saw you lie how could you fool me, was I that eager to appease was it really that easy for you to fool me or was I just wanting to belong and be you know be all that you said I was not listening or believing who God told me I was listening to the half truths and blatant lies being disrespected under my own nose and right before my very eyes who knew who really ever knows after all it's a social network ie Facebook, Tagged, or even Paltalk you know you could be anybody if you just talked the talk and walked the walk. Come on deceive me, that can't be for you made so many promises seemed so for real, it just can't be I mean it just can't be the lies the deception the face behind the screen man right now, I could just scream scream for being stupid and just wanting to believe I mean wanting to believe wanting to trust so how come I feel so deceived like I've been hit by a bus O lord this feeling has to go... it must O but I now realize that deceit comes in all shapes and sizes, big and tall, fat or small no, it doesn't matter so I've got a word to the wise take social romance one day at a time and no matter how great the person seems far or near get to know something more more concrete about the man, my dear other than O He loves me Hush Girl, dry those eyes no, you not.... you not gonna die now wipe away those tears Be safe and never again be unwise and know you're not the only one this been happening for many years that's right, I said years... Can't you hear... Girl, better open up those ears Open those ears and hear the truth And just be wiser, now that you've learned that you can't take every person, on their word check them out, it's not so absurd, get to know them and don't be in a hurry and that's so the end of my story. But before, I go let me leave you with this one wise thought anything worth having is well worth waiting on Godly wisdom teaches you to be wise not rush and be fooled wanting to just be somebody's wife Remember: Your time is coming! Just wait on God, Amen?

   

 A Note: Ladies, don't be deceived, I bet if those of you that are or have dated online take a poll you will find that more than half of you and your friends will discover that at one time or another you have or are talking marriage and/or having a relationship with the same guy on some of these social network sites. You ever wonder why he only sends im's or messages to your inbox and never post or replies personal messages to you on your wall, seriously, Question it!!! Ladies, it's 2011, naiveness went out or should have after high school. So be safe and use wisdom...God bless You Galatians 6:7 And yes, can't go with out saying this, please FORGIVE! "For if you forgive men when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But, if you do not forgive men their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins." 

 Evangelist Val Robinson © 2011 All rights reserved. Penned March 12, 2011 10:01 p.m